multiple Owner reference on secret with cluster-api and clusterresourceset

[sebglon]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
we deploy some secret generated by vaultstaticsecret with the clusterresourceset (cluster-api).
but VSS fail to sync secret due to 2 reference owner set on the secret

Describe the solution you'd like
VSO have to check if the owner is present on the list but not exact match

Describe alternatives you've considered

Additional context
here is an error sync log

Failed to update k8s secret: invalid ownerReferences, refs=[]v1.OwnerReference{v1.OwnerReference{APIVersion:"secrets.hashicorp.com/v1beta1", Kind:"VaultStaticSecret", Name:"osc-cloud-contr
oller-manager-secret", UID:"8d29d9be-6076-4a43-bb6a-1e33bfb50ea6", Controller:(*bool)(nil), BlockOwnerDeletion:(*bool)(nil)}, v1.OwnerReference{APIVersion:"addons.cluster.x-k8s.io/v1beta1", Kind:"ClusterResourceSet", Name:"osc-cloud-controller-manager", U
ID:"b3f06448-83dd-4a7e-8fa5-7ff58c09340d", Controller:(*bool)(nil), BlockOwnerDeletion:(*bool)(nil)}}
not the owner of the destination Secret devops-b/osc-cloud-controller-manager-secret